“It’s a helluva start, being able to recognize what makes you happy.” – Lucille Ball
Hi Lovely People,
Nothing gets you resonating with your desire faster than playing the “Why Game“. When you find reasons why you want your desire, in that moment you are thinking about having the desire and not the lack of the desire. Most people think that they are thinking about their desire when they are really thinking about the lack of their desire, the reasons why they are so unhappy it’s not here.
But, when you take even five minutes a day to ask yourself why you want your dream to come true, then you are pulsing at the frequency of joy and happiness about the desire.
If you spend time every day focusing on why you want something, you are in attracting mode and are very powerfully magnetizing the desire to you. As you do this daily, you will build the frequency of having that desire until it is drawn into your life.
It’s important to get out of thinking about the absence of your desire and get into the feelings of already having it, and asking yourself why you want it is the most powerful and quick way I have found to do this.
So, right now, think of your greatest desire.
Now think of at least five reasons why you want that desire to come true.
Say your reasons out loud, as if you were talking to a trusted friend.
Do this whenever you are feeling negative emotion about your desire and you will lift your vibe quickly and get back on track with magnetizing in your desire.
If you want a guided version of the “Why Game”, you can download the mp3 and play it all throughout your day.
Love and Blessings,
Denise
Ashley says:
Hi Denise!
I just want to say that I love your blog. I look forward to reading my emails in the morning. You always have such great info. This is one of my favourite posts as of yet. It really resonates with me. Asking the five questions of why you want it not only has you vibrating, or “buzzing” at the same frequency as what you’re manifesting, it also allows you to put in perspective why you chose this desire.
For example: I choose $50,000.00 1.Financial security 2.Extravagant Walt Disney World Family Vacation 3.Ability to give generously to my family 4.Relief 5.Excitement
So, although I still choose $50,000.00, the “why I choose this” my reasons for choosing this can all be fulfilled in some other way, not in just receiving the $50,000.00. It highlights the fact that there really are infinite possibilities.
Thank you again for your post. I look forward to what comes next!
Have a great day!
Denise says:
Thank you, Ashley, and great point!! I call this the “primary desire” and the “secondary desire”. Secondary desires are the desires we have that we think will get us our real desires, so they are functional desires, like massive wealth, etc. But sometimes, we think we want our secondary desires, but what we really want are the things the secondary desires can get us, like trips to Disney World! Bug hugs! Denise